This study sought to explore the centrality of a matchmaker in traditional marriage among the Abagusii. A case study research design was utilized. The social exchange theory of mate selection guided the study. Stratified, purposive and snowballing sampling techniques were used to obtain 30 respondents who provided data. An interview guide was utilized to gather qualitative data which was analyzed using thematic content inquiry. The study found that a matchmaker (esigani) played a significant role in most marriages among the Abagusii in the traditional setting. He or she was involved in mate selection, negotiations, dowry payment, and regular advice during and after marriage and when a conflict occurred during a marriage. Due to the use of a matchmaker, careful selection of mates was in most cases ensured and therefore few marital conflicts and divorce. The role of a go-between began declining with the advent of settlers and missionaries in Gusiiland. The study will benefit the present and future generations of the Abagusii. They will know that despite modernity, marriage requires collaborative views including those of a matchmaker.
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Mokua, Z. O. , Kiriama, H. , Nyamwaka, E. O. , Nyakundi, E. and Oino, P. G. (2024). The Centrality of Esigani (Matchmaker) in Traditional Abagusii Marriage. Open Access Library Journal, 11, e1274. doi: http://dx.doi.org/10.4236/oalib.1111274.
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