农村婚俗中的家庭代际权力研究
Study on Family Intergenerational Power in Rural Marriage Custom

本文以农村家庭为研究对象，通过分析三户农村家庭婚礼仪式筹备过程中的代际互动以及代际冲突，来理解农村地区代际间的权力制衡关系以及这一权力运作机制的变化原因。研究结果表明，当下中国农村家庭代际权力主要具有“运作领域分工明确化”和“运作过程日常协商化”的特征，从代际双方的角度来看，这些特征的出现一方面源于父代权威的内隐化，另一方面也来自于子代家庭权力的情感性让渡，同时代际亲密关系中的理性化选择也让协商式权力运作成为可能。将代际互动置于农村婚礼这一场域中进行考察，既在动态性过程中检验了亲密情感在家庭代际权力格局变动中的粘合剂作用，又从文化角度为代际关系和代际权力研究打开了新思路。
Taking rural families as the research object, this paper analyzes the intergenerational interaction and intergenerational conflict in the wedding ceremony preparation process of three rural families to understand the intergenerational power balance relationship in rural areas and the reasons for the change of this power operation mechanism. The research results show that the current intergenerational power of rural families in China mainly has the characteristics of “clear division of labor in the field of operation” and “daily negotiation in the process of operation”. From the perspective of both generations, the emergence of these characteristics on the one hand comes from the implicit authority of the parents, on the other hand, it also comes from the emotional transfer of the family power of the children. At the same time, the rational choice in the intergenerational intimate relationship also makes the negotiation power operation possible. Exploring the intergenerational interaction in the field of rural wedding not only tests the adhesive effect of intimate emotion in the change of family intergenerational power pattern in the dynamic process, but also opens a new idea for the study of intergenerational relationship and intergenerational power from the cultural perspective.