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父母消极教养行为如何影响儿童发展？
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Abstract:
一个人从出生到死亡，一生都是在家庭的陪伴之下而逐渐发展的，虽然在不同的发展阶段中，家庭对个体发展有着不同的影响，但是个体始终都难以脱离家庭的影响独立地成长和发展。家庭作为儿童社会化的最初场所和主要场所，与儿童健康快乐成长密切相关，越来越多的研究强调家庭对青少年心理健康发展的重要性。国内外诸多研究已证明，作为家庭系统的重要组成成分，父母的种种行为会对儿童心理发展产生直接影响。近年来研究者们围绕父母心理控制、家庭暴力、亲子沟通以及父母消极教养行为的代际传递问题等进行了大量研究，本文对现有典型父母消极教养行为对儿童发展的影响进行了整理并对今后的研究方向提出了展望。
From birth to death, a person gradually develops under the companionship of their family throughout their life. Although the family has different impacts on individual development at dif-ferent stages, it is always difficult for an individual to grow and develop independently without the influence of the family. As the initial and primary place for children’s socialization, the family is closely related to their healthy and happy growth. More and more studies emphasize the importance of the family for the psychological health development of adolescents. Numerous studies both domestically and internationally have shown that as an important component of the family system, parents’ various behaviors have a direct impact on children’s psychological development. In recent years, researchers have conducted extensive research on parental psychological control, domestic violence, parent-child communication, and the intergenerational transmission of negative parenting behaviors. This article summarizes the impact of typical parental negative parenting behaviors on children’s development and proposes prospects for future research directions.
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