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关系模型视角下的婚恋满意度的变化研究
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Abstract:
在不同的关系状态(婚姻，恋爱)中，人们的满意度水平是不同的。有研究发现，人们在婚姻中的满意度水平高于恋爱中人们的满意度水平。而另一些研究却发现，恋爱中伴侣的关系满意度高于婚姻中夫妻的关系满意度。本研究根据既往的研究理论，假设恋爱中的情侣报告更高的关系满意度，根据方便取样的原则，从重庆、甘肃、河南等九个地区选取1500名被试，采用问卷调查的方法，探究关系满意度与关系状态的关系。结果表明，关系满意度与关系状态有关(恋爱还是婚姻)，而与持续时间没有相关。从而得出我们的结果支持了幻灭模型和关系冲突模型。
In different relationship states (marriage, dating), people have different levels of satisfaction. Studies have found that people are more satisfied in marriage than in relationships. Other studies have found that relationship satisfaction is higher for couples in relationships than for couples in marriages. Based on previous research theories, this study assumed that couples in love reported higher relationship satisfaction. According to the principle of convenient sampling, 1500 subjects were selected from Chongqing, Gansu, Henan and other nine regions to explore the relationship between relationship satisfaction and relationship status by questionnaire survey. The results showed that relationship satisfaction was related to relationship status (relationship versus marriage), but not duration. Thus, our results support the disillusionment model and the relationship conflict model.
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