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社会经济地位与亲密关系：建立、维持和解体
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Abstract:
在社会转型期和多元价值的冲击和影响下，婚恋难已成为社会普遍现象，而亲密关系深受社会经济地位的影响。因此，聚焦心理学视角下社会经济地位与亲密关系间的关系具有重要意义。分别从心理取向、压力与资源和择偶策略这三方面阐述现有社会经济地位与亲密关系的理论；根据亲密关系的发展阶段，从建立、维持和解体顺序展开社会经济地位对亲密关系的影响；未来研究可以从研究方法、取样和文化等方面对社会经济地位和亲密关系间的相关性继续拓展。
During the period of social transition and under the impact of multiple values, Chinese marriage rate is declining and the divorce rate is rising. The phenomenon of marital difficulties has gradu-ally attracted widespread attention in society. Given the impact of socioeconomic status on inti-mate relationships, this study focuses on the relationship between them from a psychological perspective. The theory of existing socioeconomic status and intimacy is elaborated from the three aspects of the psychological orientation account, the stress and resource account, and the mating strategies account. The impact of socioeconomic status on intimacy can be shown from the order of formation, maintenance, and dissolution according to the development stage of intimate relationship. Future research can continue to expand the correlation between socioeconomic status and intimate relationship from the aspects of research methods, sampling and culture.
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