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长期择偶与短期择偶行为差异及其机制
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Abstract:
随着择偶观念逐渐发展，当代青年对于长期择偶与短期择偶这两种择偶策略的态度正在发生改变。已有研究发现，采用不同的择偶策略会影响择偶的结果，人们在长期择偶与短期择偶时对“好资源”、“好基因”与“好品质”这三类配偶价值的择偶偏好有所不同，而影响该差异的因素包括性别差异、自恋人格、性开放程度、性别比例等，对于此，研究者一般从进化心理学、刺激–价值–角色(SVR理论)、资源取向等视角进行解释。本文通过对国内外有关长期择偶与短期择偶的研究进行综述，帮助加深对当代青年择偶行为的理解。
With the gradual development of the concept of mate choice, contemporary young people’s atti-tudes towards long-term mating and short-term mating are changing. Recent research shows that the use of different mating strategies will affect the results of mate choice. People’s preference towards the three types of mate choice criteria: “good resources”, “good genes” and “good quality” in long-term and short-term mating is different, and the factors affecting this difference include gender differences, narcissistic personality, sexual openness, gender ratio, etc. For this, researchers generally explain from the perspectives of evolutionary psychology, stimulus-value-role (SVR theory), resource orientation. The study reviews the domestic and foreign researches on long-term mate choice and short-term mate choice to help deepen the understanding of contemporary youth mate choice behavior.
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