This article explores intimate partner support between inter-racial couples in which both partners have a minoritized racial identity (or identities); inter-racial couples in which one partner is White/Caucasian identified; and intra-racial couples in which both partners identify as the same minoritized racial identity. Utilizing qualitative survey research methodology, (n = 48) participants shared their experiences with race-related discrimination, stress, and intimate partner support. The results of the study indicated that dating, partnering, coupling or marrying intra-racially serves as a major protective factor for receiving support within an intimate relationship when coping with racial discrimination, stress and traumatic microaggressions. The article highlights the importance of critical self-awareness and consciousness utilizing Critical Race Theory (CRT) when providing clinical services to couples that include at least one partner of a minoritized racial/ethnic identity group. Finally, clinical practice recommendations will also be included for couples’ therapist working with interracial couples utilizing an antiracist and Critical Race Theoretical approach.
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