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闲话的多维作用——基于不同年龄阶段的社交表现和心理影响
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Abstract:
本文探讨了闲话作为一种普遍社交现象在不同年龄阶段的特点和影响。闲话，通常定义为关于不在场第三方的非正式、非官方的交谈或传言，涵盖了从日常琐事到评价性讨论。在心理学和社会学中，闲话被视为一个复杂的社交行为，不仅传递信息，还涉及社交排斥、联盟形成、社会地位和道德评判。闲话的普遍性体现在其跨越年龄、性别和社会经济地位的普遍存在。在不同的社会环境和年龄段中，闲话的表现形式和功能可能有所不同，例如在儿童和青少年中与社交地位和身份探索相关，而在成人中则与社交网络维护、信息交换和职场策略关联。本研究旨在深入理解闲话在不同生命周期阶段的角色，以全面理解其作用和影响。
This study examines the characteristics and impact of gossip as a widespread social phenomenon across different age groups. Gossip, defined as informal conversations or rumors about absent third parties, plays a complex role in psychology and sociology. It not only conveys information but also involves social dynamics such as exclusion, alliance formation, social status, and moral judgment. The universality of gossip is evident across age, gender, and socio-economic statuses. Its manifestations and functions vary across social environments and age brackets. For example, in children and adolescents, gossip may relate to social status and identity exploration, while in adults, it is associated with social network maintenance, information exchange, and adherence to moral norms. This research aims to comprehensively understand the role of gossip across different life stages, providing insights into its diverse functions and influences.
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