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八卦在未成年人中间传播所带来的影响
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Abstract:
聊天是人们的主要社交方式，但是聊天的绝大多数内容都与他人相关，尤其是不在场的第三方，这种信息交换的过程被称之为八卦。八卦有好有坏，有时人们会传递积极八卦，但是消极八卦会占据八卦内容的百分之八十。不好的八卦可能会损害他人名誉，是一种不道德的行为。尤其是在中小学当中，当未成年人成为八卦目标时，还伴随着校园欺凌的发生，因此我们应该了解八卦对未成年人所产生的影响，避免恶性事件的发生，从而更好的为心理健康服务。
Chatting is the main way people socialize, but the vast majority of chatting relates to other people, especially third parties who are not present, and this process of exchanging information is called gossip. There is both good and bad gossip, and sometimes people pass on positive gossip, but nega-tive gossip can make up as much as eighty percent of the gossip content. Bad gossip can damage the reputation of others and is an unethical behavior. Especially in primary and secondary schools, when minors become the target of gossip, it is also accompanied by bullying in schools, so we should understand the impact of gossip on minors, to avoid the occurrence of malicious incidents, so as to better serve mental health.
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