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非安全依恋者浪漫嫉妒的个体差异
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Abstract:
浪漫关系在个人关系中有着非常重要的位置，但浪漫嫉妒会对关系造成巨大的影响。而依恋理论能够很好的解释嫉妒在个体中的差异。但目前的研究结果太过于粗糙，对于嫉妒的成分缺乏更加细致的梳理。本文分别梳理了依恋焦虑和依恋回避在三种嫉妒中的差异。未来研究应进一步分析非安全依恋个体在网络嫉妒中的差异，探讨嫉妒的动态发展变化。
Romantic relationships have a very important place in personal relationships, but romantic jealousy can have a huge impact on relationships. Attachment theory can explain the difference in jealousy among individuals. But the current results are too crude, and there is a lack of more nuanced sorting out of the components of jealousy. This paper sorts out the differences between attachment anxiety and attachment avoidance in the three types of jealousy. Future studies should further analyze the differences in online jealousy among insecurely attached individuals and explore the dynamic development and changes of jealousy.
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