%0 Journal Article %T Distinguished бн or dissonant: Gay male midlife identity as emergent in intergenerational communication with younger gay men %A Christopher Hajek %J Journal of Social and Personal Relationships %@ 1460-3608 %D 2018 %R 10.1177/0265407516689309 %X This article is based on semi-structured interviews and thematic analysis of stories of 40 early midlife gay men concerning their conversations with younger gay men. Utilizing the communication theory of identity (CTI) as a sensitizing framework, open and axial coding revealed three overarching themes: shifted perspective on gay identity, evolved performance of gay identity, and discord with gay cultural expectations. The findings contribute to broadened understandings of how gay men experience midlife, and these are discussed in light of key CTI concepts %K Aging %K communication theory of identity %K gay %K identity %K intergenerational communication %K interpersonal communication %K midlife %U https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/full/10.1177/0265407516689309