In a small bourgeous family tradition, the heroine who was brought up through her parents’demands and expectations finds herself in love and confidence by fulfilling duty andresponsibilities that she was charged with. At the age of 33, in order to get rid of the relationsbetween her and her family and not to come back, she goes next to her darling, Strass living inanother city. She expects love, concern and closeness from him as she saw in her family. Herlover Strass who cannot express his demands and who is reticent and introverted. The womenwho cannot receive any answer to her expectations from express her narcissist feelings by heraggressiveness: She wants to shout at Strass, but she cannot be successful. The aggressiveness inthe dynamics of this narcissist relationship has an important role. The relationship that sheexperienced first with her family members, then with her lover has a sadomasochistic content.Her relationship with the other, which she cannot break up and be together continues in a formof a narcissist struggle which shelters different types of des destruction of the other, those ofhaving the other.